Personally, I like both public and private sweet gestures. But I believe, sweet gestures in private are the most intimate and meaningful. I've known some who's been very sweet, but it's only a way of "show-off" and the partners tend to change colours when others are not around, if you know what I mean.
Well, in our case, we show sweet gestures both in public and private. When we're in public, we know that people like seeing us that way. Deep inside of me, I feel proud not because other people are commenting on it, but because I know for myself that even though we've been married for almost 5 years already, we are still able to keep the love in our relationship burning. If there's an audience who we want to witness those sweet gestures of ours, it would be our kid/s. They'll surely be the proudest of us.
But those public sweet gestures are only a little of what we can show when it's only the two of us or when we're at home.
To give you an idea of the sweet gestures that we exchange to each other, read on...
- When we're walking, most of the time, we do HHWW (Holding Hands While Walking).
- When we're sitting in a train, car, sofa, airplane, etc., we do HHWS (Holding Hands While Sitting)
- When hubby's having breakfast (I don't, but I join him on the table), he'll request for a hug. I'll go and hug him from behind.
- When I wash the dishes, he'll hug and kiss me. (Yeah... It's disturbing! But I love it! LOL)
- We will just hug tight when we are both standing at the kitchen.
- When I ask for a kiss, he will grant it. Then I ask again and bring my tongue out so it touches his lips (he hates it! LOL). When I ask for another, I will then have to use force to get it... =)
- I rarely give him massage, it's not sweet for me... LOL! It's tiring!!!
- He carries all the heavy bags when we do the grocery. (That's sweet, right?)
- I just say I love you with a kiss and he does the same, that happens any time.
- He brings my drink inside the room when I don't feel like standing up. (Yeah... Lazy me!!!)
And there's a lot lot more!!! Reading back, I just realised, hubby's sweeter than me, huh? =)
Come and join us again for this week's Couple's Corner.
